1. Your partner must be what you want…
whether it be appearance, personality, wants and desires, etc. (Your partner has
voiced that they feel you are always wanting to change them and they cannot
please you.)
2. Your partner must be available when you want and
or need them and not bother you when you have no need or desire for their
presence.
3. Your partner must have no "problems"… no anxieties,
no phobias, no weaknesses, no demands, no requests, no health conditions that
require resources of yours like time, energy, attention and money. When your
partner does have something you feel extremely irritated and put out by their
"flaws".
4. Your partner must look good on your arm, like a trophy
of sorts he or she must always look polished and "perfect" for you to be
attracted to them. (Your partner spends an inordinate amount of time on their
appearance to look nice for you yet you then berate them for the time
taken.)
5. Your partner must not ever change… not ever age, have
wrinkles, have stretch marks, scars, lose and or gain weight, etc. (When your
partner changes in any way you find yourself not attracted to he or she and
begin to loathe them. They better get their act together or they are
out.)
6. Your partner must not do anything that takes time and
attention away from you like hobbies, a career, social activities, etc. (Your
partner says you're controlling, that they feel isolated and they feel "hooked
at the hip" with you. Your partner fails to be your
"everything".)
7. Your partner must be willing to accept any and
all responsibility for the issues in the relationship… because if they would
just "work harder" at pleasing you, being perfect, the relationship would
improve. (Your partner has tried over and over again to verbalize the issues in
the relationship, your partner suffers from anxiety, stress, depression and or
unexplainable illnesses.)
8. Your partner must be happy to give
you what you want when you want it… like a bank account if you are making
deposits, (gifts; flowers, chocolates, meals, trips, spending allowance, etc)
you better be getting a return… and it better be worth what you've paid out.
(Your partner has voiced time and again that they feel the relationship is like
a business (deals made) instead of based on love, mutual respect and
equality.)
9. Your partner must be willing to let you be
completely in control, to make all the decisions. You find your partner
continually coming "against you" regarding issues like child rearing, home
decor, where to live, remodeling decisions, in-law issues/visits, holiday
celebrations, educational, psychological and discipline decisions for the
children, etc.
10. Your partner
must be willing to put up with or turn the other cheek to less than desirable
behaviors by you like lying, (what you call harmless little white lies) cheating
and criminal-like behaviors such as tax-evasion, fraud, etc. (Your partner
continually catches you in lies and or protests your ill behavior.)
THIS IS A FRIENDLY WAKE UP CALL TO ALL THE NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATHS, INCLUDING ONE FRED 'SHERRIFF LOBO' HARRAN: GOD SEES YOUR WICKEDNESS, AND IF YOU DON'T REPENT, HIS JUDGEMENT WILL BE UPON YOU.
REPENT!!!
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