FOR ALL THOSE DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST

I FOUND THIS ON A VERY POWERFUL MINISTRY FOR WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN VICTIMZED BY NARCISISTIC SOCIOPATHS, AND HAD TO SHARE. THIS IS FOR EVERY WIFE OF A DISHONEST, CHEATING, DIRTY COP IN BENSALEM.
 
5 Things A Narcissistic Sociopath Does In A Relationship:


1. Controlling.Your opinion doesn't matter. He/she doesn't care what you think. Each time you express yourself; what you think, he/she will shoot it down as displeasing. They always believe they are right and will make all the decisions on where to live, how to manage and spend finances, your sex life and parenting. No matter how much you try you can never please them as their expectations are so incredibly high you can never meet them.

2. One-sided communication. 
He/she will not be able to effectively communicate with you. He/she will use tactics of callous arrogance, intimidation, stone-walling and silent treatment instead.
3. Objectification.He/she will objectify you sexually not value you as a person. You could be anyone… you're a non-person, a useful tool to satisfy their every whim and desire.
4. Cheating.
A narcissistic sociopath will cheat and lie pathologically about it. He/she will expect you to "just get over it"… a common phrase narcs use to gloss over much of their immoral behavior. In fact, a narc will believe that their spouse "drove them to cheat"; if you hadn't been "this way or done that" they think: "I wouldn't have had to cheat on you. This is your fault." They take zero responsibility for their poor actions.
a. The sex is always one-sided. He/she ensures their needs are met but offers no reciprocal satisfaction to their partner. They always expect it when they want it and it's so often (to the extreme) the other partner isn't even given the opportunity to initiate.

b. The sex involves manipulation. He/she tries to discern how far they can make their partner go and compromise on what they feel comfortable with.
* This includes getting their spouse to do humiliating sexual things, including mate swapping, and other sexual sins.
5. Taker.He/she is a taker and more than likely you're a co-dependent and/or highly empathetic individual who has confused love and sacrifice to an unhealthy extreme. You may tend to put the success of the relationship ahead of your own needs becoming less and less satisfied because you're giving so much and receiving little to nothing back. Co-dependents are often the product of one or two parents who were narcissistic… they are merely living out what they've known their entire childhood; desperately seeking love and on some level they question if they are capable of ever finding someone healthy who will love them. The best thing to do is go no contact with a narcissistic sociopath and enter therapy to begin learning healthier ways to relate to others especially in regards to romantic relationships.© gps-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.com ~ 2015



THIS MESSAGE IS FOR THE SPOUSE/SIGNIFICANT OTHER OF ANYONE WHO IS INVOLVED IN A MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATH. YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT FOR WHAT THIS PERSON HAS DONE TO YOU, AND THERE IS A WAY TO ESCAPE IF YOU WILL ONLY TAKE IT.  REALIZE THAT THE THINGS YOU HAVE BEEN DOING AS A RESULT OF THER SINFUL INFLUENCE IS A SIN, THAT YOU ARE A SINNER IN NEED OF A SAVIOR. ALSO REALIZE THAT THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU AND THAT HOPE IS JESUS!! GOD LOVES YOU SO MUCH THAT HE SENT HIS ONLY SON TO DIE ONTHE CROSS FOR YOUR SINS, AND ALL YU HAVE TO DO, IS ACCEPT HIS FREE GIFT OF SALVATION. TURN TO HIM TODAY, REPENT OF YOUR SINS, AND ASK HIM TO COME INTO YOUR HEART AND SAVE YOU. HE SAYS THAT IF YOU DO, YOU WILL BE SAVED, AND HAVE ETERNAL LIFE. YOU WILL BE MADE NEW SPIRITUALLY. COME TO HIM TODAY, AND LET HIM SET YOU FREE!!
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